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I have recently had my submissive side awakened. I've had some tough times while learning to accept what I have always been. With acceptance, we are able to move to the next level.

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Driving...Thinking

Today as I was driving to pick my daughter up to take her to Children's Hospital where her son was having emergency surgery I thought..."Wow, I might not make a good submiss" This thought popped in my head because I thought back about a Fetlife thread where someone commented that a sub was not good considered good if she didn't put her Dominate first in everything.

I have always put my children as a priority. When I have a partner, I place him at the same level as my children. However, I'm very up front with anyone entering my life "My children are a priority. If they call, I'm gone". I have made that statement to employers and the educational system. This type of priority also extents to my grandchildren. They do carry my DNA so they belong to me also.

I must admit, all that I have been involved with has understood this. They actually feel the same way. If I had a Dominate or Owner, I would feel the same way for their family. If they called, I would do what I could. I hope this would show my respect and devotion to Sir.

One thing about me, I take care of those important to me. My children especially but the rest of my family isn't excluded. Just on a different level.

1 comment:

  1. Someone actually said that a sub isn't good if she puts anyone before her Dominant?
    I'm thinking this person doesn't have children.

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