Over the weekend, I thought I had resolved issues with a friend. However, I'm wondering what exactly he wants. I thought I made myself clear but I've been thinking, maybe he isn't listening.
He stated he wanted to see me and spend time with me when that really didn't occur. It was the same as usual. Don't get me wrong, he spend a little time with me but it was more "I need to do this and that". Then while we were talking, he was again distracted.
I told him upfront that he had nothing to offer me but he still insisted on seeing me. I on the other hand have a lot to offer him which is willingly accepted. I look out for his reputation, I know what he wants and likes. I could actually help him with all his goals.
I just don't understand why he feels the need to assist a bitch that does nothing but disgrace, disrespect and embarrass him. His friends and family don't want her around due to her bad behavior. As her jealousy and tantrums increase, more and more are seeing just how bad it is. I bet they are also wondering why he tolerates the abuse that she offers on a regular basis. We haven't discussed the lies. He knows more than she thinks and knows that she has lied to his face but for some reason he believes there is an obligation. He had a chance to escape but she manipulated the situation and again trapped him.
Now he isn't innocent so don't think that. He has made poor decisions and continues too. All the positive he was doing to move toward his goals has been turned into a negative. He has so much potential but can't seem to move past this stagnation.
I have ask him twice now to define the relationship that he would like with me. If he chooses not too then I will be forced to develop the definition. It probably won't be what he wants but I have given him a chance. I can't put my life on hold due to his decisiveness.
He wants to learn to be a Dominant but doesn't want to step up to the level he needs. If he would put in place certain standards, it would be a positive effect on all parts of his life, not just within the lifestyle.
Time will tell which way he will go and if he chooses success or disgrace at the hands of another.
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