Post this week

I posted a question in two groups this week. MK offered a training collar when I told him I wasn't being challenged or limits pushed. I posted in a Mentors grp and Submissive Women. The Mentors grp got a lively response.

I don't think I really understood the role of mentor but from the groups response, I think its a littl clearer. He really isn't my mentor, he's a play partner. I don't think he is seeing it this way but I think its a discussion we need to have because that is the way I now see it.

Most of the group believes that he shouldn't be mentoring me because its inappropriate for a Dominate to mentor a submissive. The thought is mentoring should occur between like status...submissive to submissive or Dominate to Dominate. This actually makes since to me.

Alot of responses actually spoke to my question about a training collar. The responses were from both sides. However, as one suggested, a training collar is for training with the idea that this person is going to be the dominate or Master. That isn't the case for MK and I. I wanted to experince and he was willing to help in that area. I have since experienced bondage, knife play and wax. But I'm wondering if I should hold off on any further exploration. I'm also wondering if I should request he remove me from his protection and as his mentor.

When he offered the training collar it spooked me a lil. I view collaring regardless of type as a serious committment. I also don't want to be trained. I believe my training should be left up to the Dominate that I will be with and any collars received should also come from that Dominate.