I'm so tired of others starting drama in my life because they haven't enough in their own. Or should I say thier life is too pathetic that they must create drama in anothers.
Once again the threat had been made to contact my employer. For some reason, some who share this lifestyle blur the lines between personal and professional. As a professional, I'm permitted to have a personal life as long as it doesn't cross the line to illegal. I do believe that I'm an adult and permitted to explore my sexuality in any manner I see fit.
I'm at a lose as to possible resolutions for this problem. I'm impulsive and having a hard time not reacting negatively.
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My thoughts go out to you. It's a sad state when others want to meddle.
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If that's the case, then don't worry about it. Seriously, I know someone who has made these kinds of threats to people. You can't let it control you. If they do it, then they do it and then you expose them for the outers they are so others can avoid them.
ReplyDeleteWhat to do? Keep on as if nothing is going on. When you let it affect you, and show it, they win.
I wouldn't worry too much. What we do is not that uncommon. A friend of mine in the scene was just sued over a business transaction (which she won, btw) and the person suing her tried everything they could to bring her lifestyle into it (this woman dug it up on her). The judge was very pissed at the woman for being off topic, and told her point blank, "1 in 5 people like to be spanked and apparently she is one. THIS has NOTHING to do with this case AT ALL!!"
People who do this are trying to use fear to manipulate and control someone. They can only do so if you let them.
Good luck.
sarah
Thanks for all the support. I wrote this to vent and think abt things. Writing helps me process what's going on my life.
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