Problem Solved?

I think a temporary solution to my stalker has come to light. I attempt to ignore her "look at me...look how I have been wronged" posts. But when others, unknowing of the type of person she is, began posting "I'm sorry you had a bad experience", I began responding.

After responding, I thought it was good. The confrontation was because there are two sides to all situations and my side needed to be stated since the person who knew the truth wouldn't step forward. However, the groups weren't the right place. I apologied to both owners for taking the bait. I even offered to leave the groups if I had stepped over the line with my responses. I appreciate that both post were found inappropriate and have been deleted.

Our mutual friend wanted to end this situation. But it didn't work as I told him it wouldn't. She was only into blaming me for her life issues. She doesn't see her stalking or her inappropriate comments as a problem. She believes she is justified in her behaviors because she states once I laid eyes on our mutual friend, I wanted to take him away from her. The heart of the problem, she fails to understand he doesn't belong to anyone. He has been honest with me. He feels safe to answer questions with out receiving rage as a reaction.

He realizes she will never hear the truth. She only has her delusional ideas that she attempts to pass off as the truth. As long as I'm left alone, she can re-enforce her delusions. She just needs to keep them to herself. She has embarassed herself and our mutual friend but her postings. I truely pity her for this will prevent her from learning and growing.

Well, now for me, I'm attending a fetish play party. I'm ready to put all the negative behind and move to the next stage.