When entering a new relationship, I think the past ones should be left alone. They failed for a reason and an individual usually has hope that the new will not end up as the old. You want to trust and believe in the new while still maintaining the knowledge that patterns from the past may present. But both are different people. You have experienced another relationship to learn and grow. While the other participate has done the same with his past experiences.
Why do some insist on harping on that which has failed? Why do they need to continue to insert themselves and ruin what doesn't include them? Why are they so bitter that they can't allow happiness?
I must stipulate that those injecting themselves aren't always the ex but a third party. Most of the time, the third party feels they have to fight a battle that doesn't exist. Third parties also think they need to "warn" the new of the past perceived problems that don't exist.
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