Great Weekend

My weekend was so wonderful and I had actually been thinking of cancealling. I'm so glad that I didn't. I took off Friday and Saturday night off from work. I needed to relax and enjoy time with people outside of my work.

Ok...Friday started with me meeting another couple for a three sume, FMF. I had been apart of one in the past but didn't have the experience that I wanted. This was somewhat the same. I'm looking for a fully interactive FMF. The first female wasn't bisexual at all. The one this week is bi-curious. Both of us were hesitant and wasn't really familar with what to do or when to do it. I think to cure this issue, I will need to seek out a female that is bi or lesbian to experient and explore with.

A side from the hesitancy, it was great. The male is very good at what he does. His desire is to make the female get off multiple times ignoring his own need for release. From our conversation, he gains pleasure in watching the female achieve new hights.

To be honest, this was the first time in 10 months that I have allowed myself to give into my own desires and needs of another male. I was ask why I waited so long. I explained that I was angry and hurt. I needed to take time to heal and not have all the drama that the prior relationships offered.

Of course there is talk of me returning but the talk is confusing. I ask to borrow the male from time to time. She thought I meant one on one but I was really only speaking about a booty call and I fully expected her to be present. She stated she ask him and then informed me that would be violating a rule. She stated they have a rule that they do not become with the individuals that the other knows. However, she has become involved with several that he has brought home to her. One such individual was his boss. If that rule truely existed, then she would not have another involvements while he isn't present. Oh, well I was hoping for some honesty but I should have known better. She still maintains a relationship with B and even admitted to meeting him since the blow up in October. I guess I will need to really evaluate my need to continue with this relationship because they are interested in me returning.

I believe at one point she was upset because she was ask to satisify the male that was fetched to take pictures. She spoke all evening about being involved with the others that S had brought home to her but didn't want to separate from S that night. He had to tell her to take care of his friend. M, the photographer, actually wanted to sample me and couldn't understand why I was off limits. I had been given permission to play with S so all other males were off limits.

I had a great night of sex which was what I so badly needed. My mood has been so much better. Its amazing how some dick can chase some blues away...lol.

As for Saturday, I had bought a ticket for an event in Columbus, Bottoms Buffet. This was set up to allow new and novice bottoms try didn't things. It was also for new tops to learn a possible skill. I found a lot of couples there with the bottom exploring new sensations and their tops learning so that their play may expand.

All the demostrators were great. They took the time to explain their craft and see if you had any questions. They would then allow you to experience their craft. Since I was new and hadn't experience a lot of sensations, they were very kind and accomadating, always asking and making sure I was ok. They also answered any questions that might be presented.

I was nervous and even considered not going. But then I thought, I already bought the ticket and received permission from Sir to attend. He would be expecting some kind of report so I couldn't disappoint him. I'm so glad I went.

I was able to experience canes, spanking, electric and suspension. There was actually 2 types of suspension, I tried rigging. I also got a massage. I almost forgot baskin robbins which was different household items being used for the sensual side of BDSM. I can say I don't appreciate canes or spanking but absolutely love the other things.

The community here in Ohio is great. They are supportive and provide encouragement. The are open to answer questions and help others that are in need and not just when having trouble in the lifestyle. They also are supportive when a crisis arises in areas outside of the lifestyle. It was nice going to an event and knowing some of the people there. I haven't had a chance to go to as many munches or events because of my work schedule and major car repairs. I hope I'm able to change that this year.

I could have went back to the club for evening activities but decided against. I was too tired and just wanted to relax at home. I got home about 6:15 and by 8 I was heading toward bed. My body had began to stiffin from the night before's and the day's activities. I took some medication and went to bed. I woke fully stiff, finding it hard to move. So I continued with the medication and rest for the day. But I would not have traded the weekend for anything.

I have meet a new sub in my area. We are planning to attend a munch like event that is held at a local pool hall. She has never went to anything or been able to get out and meet people. I believe she is so exicted. I know I am.

Of course there will be more to come in the future. I believe my next level is going to be in full swing very shortly.