BDSM Questionnaire

I found this on another blog and thought it would be interesting to answer it now and then again once I have a little more experience.

1. How did you first find out about BDSM?

When I began to explore swinging, things concerning BDSM began to pop up. BDSM groups would have fetish night at several of the clubs. Then I met and started dating a Dom.

2. What was the appeal of BDSM to you?

The exchange of power is of interest to me. I’ve been in total control of all aspects of my life. I would like to give up control if the right situation would present its self.

3. Do you have any friends that are interested in BDSM?

I think a couple might have a light interest but will never admit to it.

4. Have any of the traits of your BDSM life transferred into your real life?

I think it does. I don’t submit to everyone but I attempt to cater to others needs.

5. Are you open about your lifestyle, or do you hide it from people?

I believe I’m open. I’m discreet but if ask I will provide an answer.

6. Are you an exhibitionist?

Yes

7. Is there a place you've ever wanted to masturbate or have sex, but were too afraid or embarrassed to try?

Yes, in an elevator.

8. Do you masturbate?

Yes

9. If so, how often?

As often as needed.

10. Would being "forced" to masturbate by someone make you more or less willing to do it?

Probably more. I don’t masturbate in front of others. It’s a way to satisfy a need that is going uncared for.

11. Are you more masochistic or more submissive, or are you about equal parts of each?

At this point, I’m submissive. I haven’t explored my masochistic side.

12. Have you ever worn a collar?

No

13. If you had a dominant, or if you do have a dominant, what little things would you (or do you) do to make his life a little easier daily?

This one is hard to say. It depends on the Dominate.

14. What two things about you , either physically or mentally, do you consider to be most appealing?

Physically, my eyes are most appealing. Mentally, its my willingness to help.

15. How willing are you to do things that really challenge you?

I’m very willing. I want to explore some of the things that I’m reading about. I want to see if I have any limits and what level of pain I can handle.

16. How willing are you to do things that are somewhat scary?

As long as you I wont be physically harmed.